Hi 

 

I’ve made some very good friends through business - especially my SFM business - but have never had a good experience doing business with friends 

 

In fact I avoid it. 

 

There’s just something different about the relationship isn’t there? 

 

Its best avoided.

 

 

When I meet people who become SFM and DEA members through me we start on a purely business relationship.

 

It starts with a convesation

 

They’ll have lots of questions about my own experience as a member of both and I want to get an idea from them about what they want to achieve

 

Sometimes it goes no further than that and they find they get everything they need from the training and support they’ve invested in

 

Other times we stay in touch from time to time or meet at live events - bear in mind we are sometimes in vastly different time zones

 

A handful of times though things have started that way but we have just clicked and become good friends. 

 

We email frequently, do Skype, Zoom and messenger video calls and discuss everything under the sun 

 

We help each other out with advice, tips and knowledge in all sorts of areas. Our internet businesses and SFM memberships go from being the one thing we have in common to just one of them 

 

In these cases I always find we have much more in common that we could have guessed 

 

Some people call this the Law of Attraction and have written many books about it - The Secret being a famous one which was also made into a film.

 

Maybe they are right 

 

Personally I keep an open mind but I do know this 

 

The Internet and the ways we can market goods and services on it (particularly with video) provides us with almost unreal ways to communicate with millions more people than we could ever meet

 

The law of averages alone makes it very likely that we’ll find people we resonate with on any subject

 

But if we set out with a clear intention and learn how to fine tune our communication skills we can seriously leverage that Law of Attraction  

 

And I seriously don’t mean learning cheesy sales skills - no one buys that anymore 

 

I just mean understanding what people are looking for (probably the same as you) and presenting them with solutions that fit

 

We can make a huge difference to people’s lives as they can to ours - WIN WIN

 

You can really only learn this stuff from mentors and from experience 

 

Thats really what the SFM and DEA are all about and they will soon be taking this to a whole new level  

 

But as I say It starts with a conversation and if you want to have one with me just let me know

 

 

 

Have a great weekend 

 

 

Bests

 

 

Dave